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成長是甚麼?

是一個去蕪存菁,讓人達致平安、滿足、無憾境界的過程嗎?


發生事情時,不問清楚事情來龍去脈,就認為自己人做得不對,即使沒有甚麼不對,也是有不足的地方;質問對象不是別人,永遠是自己人。 這是甚麼思想﹖甚麼道理? 你不順服別人,可能這本身亦是你性格的一種,所以別人對你做甚麼,不合你意的,你都不喜歡。——這是朋友說的。 這是真的嗎? 部分是真吧!不過她說的不少說話我都有聽到呀! 況且,不合意的就不聽,大部分人或許都是這樣吧!403


What have you lost under such circumstances? What have you gained in this situation? This is one of the toughest lessons i have ever had. People says it is only a piece of small job, even me thought so. However, things turn out to be something complicated with many flaws. I have learnt that if things come to you, you can never escape. It only makes things worse if you run away.


Sometimes we have a choice, sometimes we do not.


For this piece of work, I thought there are other options, other possibilities...... It is because I am tired of hectic working schedules, I really need to have solitude time...to sort things out or just doing nothing.


She seems to have no clue of what is happening. She stood there with a look of helpless and hopeless, watching me to see if I can sort the things out. I know she is bothering too, but she has no resolutions as well. Then when I sort things out, she start to push behind my back, asking me if I have done this or that, why didnt I do this and do that.


OK, please keep quiet if you are not really helpful. It is not asking you to shut your mouth up. It is a wisdom of being a helpful/popular person.


一味靠兇、靠嚇,是得不到別人尊重。心甘命抵為別人犧牲自己,也不保證換來對方的尊重對方不知趣不懂感恩時,你可以怪誰?


我只想自己可以好一點點,不要常常因為對方而令自己不快樂,這是天下最愚蠢的事情之一。偏偏我老是犯這個錯誤,總認為對方不夠真誠、不夠體諒而不快樂,其實真的很蠢403。 自己不快樂,人們不會可憐你,亦不會自覺以令你快樂為己任。我們都認為人應該為自己的快樂負責任。我不是說這個就是真理,但我反問自己: 我可曾為自己的情緒負責﹖可曾為自己的行為負責﹖可曾為自己的選擇負責﹖ 為甚麼我總是對別人計較那麼多呢﹖對自己又那麼寵愛呢﹖其實,我寵愛352過自己些甚麼呢﹖

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即使只有3分鐘熱度,也學習如何好好發揮,成為最漂亮的永恆。

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