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Xavier Cugat in 60's

因為阿飛既關係,「單撈」左唔少Xavier Cugat既音樂黎聽。每次係speakers聽到佢既歌,阿飛情懷馬上出現。個人很喜歡《阿飛正傳》,由演員、對白、衣飾等等都好靚,加上劇人中既氣質簡直好似度身訂造咁,我都分唔清戲裏戲外既有分別。

《阿飛》之前王仲有套戲係《旺角卡門》,呢套都好出名,但係我未睇過。係youtube睇左少少,講真,我好驚睇完之後會好似阿飛咁,上左癮,如果係就好大鑊。


呢兩套戲已經出左DVD喇,我猶豫左好耐,唔知買唔買好。不過睇到呢D咁精美既劇照,好難又唔會唔想據為己有咯。

另外一套電影令我心思思,就係Strictly Ballroom喇,就係佢令我學西班牙話既,唔好問我呀,我而家已經唔識喇。呢套係90年代初期紅極一時,hum稱係Baz Luhrmann既三步曲之一,第二步就係Romeo + Juliet (1996) ,第三步就係Moulin Rouge喇。套戲入面有好多ballroom dancing,劇情老土,但緊湊!係一套老少咸宜既電影黎架。我係mk d video shops見到,心思思左陣冇買到,因為已經有vcd喇,但係...見到佢既片段,真係令人心動咯~~~


唔通我真係帶曬佢地返屋企﹖
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Posted by martharita on 30.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

無聊的人 無聊的事

「做野姐!」從來都是職場的最佳藉口,也是與你的職責最背道而馳的荒謬之一。「做野」背後,其實可能已暗示做過箭靶、做了手指、做了手腳,還做過不少人。

「做野」就是職場の王道。

沒有本事清高,也沒有想與現實背道而馳,只是有些時候,有些說話,有些做法就開不了口,下不了手,因此「蝕卓」了。

王道可能work,但不代表對。我還是相信team work,team work是建基於信任。

四川發生令人震撼的事情,大家表現出來的,無不是節哀,然後順變的堅強。這一些是人類擁有的一種珍貴特質,至少我相信是。可是,要等到天災人禍才表現這種情操,那豈不是要死過千萬人,才能彰顯人類特質的珍貴﹖

做人不只是順應職場的「王道」而已,還有很多寶貴的東西值得保持。

記得讀書為了甚麼,記得轉工為了甚麼。發生的都只是小事,不過很多都被人誇大了,其實這些小事價值何在﹖然而,這種事情是屢見不鮮,無可避免的。

那些失去家人、朋友、身體殘缺的,在自己最貴乏的時候,也懂得體察別人需要,叫士兵先救其他人,衝入災區救人、自發救其他人等等,他們都是微不足道的小人物,不過,在某些時候,他們選擇了某些事情。

失去,並不是最可怕,害怕失去,才是最可怕的。

我記得最珍貴的,珍惜擁有的,這就是點點力量的來源,也是趕退負能量的最佳工具。

有關四川地震一事,不少故事和消息無不令人心痛,也有令人更珍貴眼前人和事。其實對於突如其來的災難,我們應該如何處理和面對呢﹖以下是一些有用的資料給大家參考。click以下url會連結到一網頁,只要再click那些link,便可下載相關file了。

這些都是一些有心人為大家提供的一點資訊,希望對大家有用﹕

家庭如何協助兒童面對四川地震

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Posted by martharita on 27.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

呢兩日天氣唔係咁好,尋日仲有風大雨!下班時遇上風雨,站在大堂外想了想是否留待天色好轉一點少離開,最後還是照原訂計劃上山去。

今次可算是真正體會風雨飄搖的味道,應該是十級風雨飄搖的味道!我穿了一件雨衣,撐著一把翠色的長直傘沿著斜路上山走,平時也走得我氣喘喘的路如今走得更難!因為打開傘子後,它成了金鐘罩,頂著跟前的十級風和買面八路而來的雨水,只是一段十分鐘的路程變成與大自然「搏鬥」的印記!可恨我走到半路中途,我心愛的傘子給吹散了!(嗚~~嗚~~) 這就應了屋漏兼逢連夜雨呢,因為身體不適我我歸心似箭,只想盡快回家...環望四周,竟然連一個垃圾箱都沒有!「隨便把它丟在一旁」的想法立即浮現,不過總怕此情此境,傘子與狂風加起來可能與殺人武器無異,於是我還得非常有公心地給它找一個合適的居所,最後就在巴士站附近的公園的廢紙箱旁邊放下它,繼續上路了。

到了巴士站時,整個人都濕了。人人都有一把傘,只有我似落湯雞一樣等巴士。變成「漆皮」般模樣的防風雨衣,逐點逐點的滲透寒氣,然後慢慢傳遍我的身軀,這時我最擔心的是病倒了!我不想病!真的不想病啊!幸好不消一分鐘,970x馬上趕到,帶我離開這個台風地帶!

最後,又在佐敦等了差不多20分鐘才轉搭小巴回家去...天呀!下雨真的很麻煩......
Posted by martharita on 21.2008   1 comments
Category :無所事事

Lunchtime walking II

Hello, after the healthy exercise of yesterday, the sunny day pushes me out of office to have a walk today.. It is still hot but I am lovin' it!
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Click下面,睇多d啦

Posted by martharita on 16.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

Lunchtime walking

Thanks for d's reminder, my blog has already got over 1000 visits! Bravo! Isn't that great?

Recently, i always almost make a mistake that Thursday is Friday! I bet! It is becuase the weather is really fine, my heart is like an kitel flying in the sky to far~ far~ and far~~away~~ Even so, I will fly back to get my check

A few days ago, I went to Queen Mary for lunch. I thought it is just a typical government complex building, i didn't know it turns out to be something liked this
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Inside the building, it is a canteen...I liked such old fashioned colonial style corridor...
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Just can't imagine the consistent design of a hospital canteen...
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Surprise! I decided to take a walk near office today at lunchtime. For details please click below.

Posted by martharita on 15.2008   1 comments
Category :無所事事

Running beauty of the beach

When can I have a life like this?


I don't need to have the multiple me, that would be too scary!

great great great!
Finally finish all assignments and I am ready to play.


The sky was so crystal clear and blue, with the seabreeze near my work place, there is nothing I can complain.

There are only 2 week left in May, June is coming. School will be started in September, mm, I should start to plan what should do during the break for the fresh start in the new year.

Part of the plan is wearing my swimming suit and go to beach or pool. G and all girls been to Nam Wan already, it makes me envy seeing how much fun they had in facebook.

Then, exercise should be another item for putting back my routine list. I remember I suffer less pain during period when I had regular exercises, besides, exercise helps to relieve my stress and makes me happy, most important is, make me younger! Both at heart and look, I believe

Thirdly...mm, maybe read more books? good...still thinking
Posted by martharita on 14.2008   1 comments
Category :無所事事

今日上堂case令我有d反省,感受或者印象都幾深刻。

因為50幾歲既爸爸發生了婚外情,媽媽很憤怒,即使兩名子女表達了他們十分擔心媽媽的情況,而爸爸也因為妻子性情變得異常而十分擔心,因此也一同與家人來參與輔導。

過程中,爸爸是一個不擅辭令的人,哥哥則是一個理性+理性的人,當老師問到他的感受時,他真的答不上,反而不斷描述當時的情況。爸爸也有表達感受的機會,可是媽媽老是打斷他的說話,眼神十分怨恨,爸說不到幾句,便把說話往肚裏吞了,媽媽還是繼續停留在自己的怨恨當中。女兒十分無助,整個人都坐得塌下來了,同時又很擔心父母的情況。

到了最後,媽媽的憤怒依然沒有消退,即使老師多次讓媽媽體會兒女的當下的感受;兒子=無奈(他快要結婚了!),女兒=擔心,這位媽媽依然不願放下心中的怨恨,甚至可能期待有人走出來替她主持公道﹕「你做對了!你沒有錯,錯的是他們這對狗男女!」不過老師也知道媽媽這種想法,因此才運用她孩子對她的愛,希望讓她知道現在她的憤怒,不只毀了他自己,還有她的孩子,最後,連她的丈夫,即是她的婚姻也因她的憤怒而被毀了。

媽媽這般憤怒,當然是因為她受到極大傷害所致。她提過從少她便孤單一人,直至遇上現在的丈夫,以為自己一生有可信的依靠了。她自言曾有不少朋友說她是最幸福的女人,怎料原來丈夫背棄了婚姻的承諾,一直把盡心盡力的妻子蒙在鼓裏,而偷偷地在與另一女士發生了關係。

其實我的家庭也曾經發生這些事。媽媽曾透露過爸爸有婚外情。盡情她沒有多說,而我亦真的不知太多。只記得他倆曾有幾次十分激烈的爭吵,那時我尚在讀小學,記得媽跟爸吵,後來她衝到洗手間喝滴露,後來爺爺衝主來給她灌水,不知怎的事情就漸漸平息了。又有一次我已經出來做事了,回到家後氣氛異常,弟才說原來他們又吵了,嫖還給爸幾記耳光,爸沒有還手,後來爸說如果當時他還手,後果便不堪設想了。

我想,家庭糾紛原來可能其實是十分正常的事。可能一個24小時7天都是正常快樂的家,其實才是奇怪的事。當然不是指很極端的爭吵,嚷著要斬人自殺的都是可接受的。記得舅父舅母在家族中出了名火爆,表姐們說不時有警察到訪調停他夫婦倆的糾紛,笑著說「回想來起也覺得很羞家。」如今表姐們都各自組織了家庭,舅父舅母都一起在家湊孫,不知不覺,原來日子又這樣過了。人生走到他們這個年紀,其實人生是甚麼﹖婚姻是甚麼﹖伴侶是甚麼﹖快樂又是甚麼呢﹖

老師做了多年婚姻輔導,她也有感慨,認為婚姻就似賭大細一樣。男方婚前當你如珠如寶,把女方服侍得像公主一樣,到了某天,大家都變成銀髮一族了,男方才說自己一直以後很辛苦,服侍付出得夠多了,不想再在繼續這段關係了。

她續說,婚姻是令人進步的,30年前是這樣子,不代表30年後還會是一樣。

原來婚姻其實是一條十分漫長而又充滿變化的道路。兩個人走在一起,長時間共同經營同一樣東西,本不是易事,可能還有孩子的事要兼顧......快樂美滿幸福的關係,原來不止是命水可以保證,也不是自己能力可以控制的。原來還有個人的期望,你想要甚麼,而事實又不是你所期望的,這個時候,你會做甚麼呢﹖
Posted by martharita on 10.2008   2 comments
Category :Reflections on Behavioural Health

Almost four now.

It is such a good day today, the weather is extremely fine! I thought about a sick leave today and finally I did't give in and sitting in the office now. I can't help not to take a picture at pantry. It is just so beautiful, the chimes on Lamma Island are my signs of holidays and fun mood...-_-!
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beautiful sunshine at Sandy Bay

Last night, I had a presentation with classmates on Transvestism. It is a group project and classmates are so amazing. She has done a lot of findings to support our arguments on the topic. Unfortunately, the presentation seemed to be too serious, I mean the attitude of classmates, and for my ill-prepared presentation performance, sigh, I don't think I could get good grades. Even worse is that lecturer told us the presentation weighs the highest scores throughout the course...damn it.

I spent most of the time on my homeworks and studying for the tests...2 more assignments will be dued next week, later I might need to pay full attention onto my work...I seem to get used to the pace and style of working in uni. Being late is still a problem, hey! PFL wor! 9am wor!!! What can I do ar??? Dunno how long I am gonna stay here?
Posted by martharita on 08.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

task complete!

I love its tail~round and tiny, cute! 415

yeah! Great! Another task is completed. Finally there are 3 more to go and gotta finished by mid May, until then my year-one uni life will be gone.

Today I have finished a test which is about Abnormal Behavior. It is an interesting subject and the lecturer is really good as himself a clinical psychologist, he has seen and treated many people suffered from different mental illnesses. I finally know what do the people mean by "psychodynamics" or "behavioral perspective". I also gained slightly more in-depth knowledge of what is oral stage, anal stage, phallic stage, id, ego, superego and defensive mechanism! Besides these, I gotta know more about mood disorders(情緒病)such as depression(抑鬱症), bipolar disorders(躁狂症), anxieities(焦慮症), schizophrenia (精神分裂) and the topic introduced today, dissociative disorder(多重人格障礙).

I do not know why I am particularly interested in this subject. It is fascinating that human beings can have so many distortions of their characters or develop different kinds of strategies to cope with the things that they cannot cope. Some might be helpful, unfortunately, many of these are developed in a pathological(病態) way, these do not help them to solve problems but create lot more troubles affecting their daily lives.

Prevention is alway better than treatment (預防勝於治療). It is always true to many things, including mental health. Exercises and stress-free lifestyle plays an important role in terms of healthy life. It is helpful in postponing the happenings of function-deterioriating illnesses such as dementia (痴呆症), stroke(中風) and also other mental illness(MI) such as depression, anxieities. Some sorts of MI have no particular reasons for happening, it just happens when it is happened. But it is noticed that there is a higher chance to trigger when one is highly distress or under stress. These can be treated with medications(take pills), psychotherapy(like counselling) or behavioral therapy. Relapse(復發) is very common in MI. It seems liked once you have developed some kind of mental illnesses episodes, it is expected that you might have it again later. It is liked a one-way ticket, once you have developed these illnesses, it is expected of its revisits...

Therefore, my dear friends, please, really do take care of yourself by doing exercises, it helps to create endorphin which makes you happy and provide you more energy. The other thing is to adopt or practise a more stress-free, relaxing and positive attitude towards life. We have many goals to achieve, many things to want, yet, we have to know that we all have limitations, and we are not perfect too, we cannot please everyone in this world and have all the things in the world, i know it is more easier to said than done. ..but we gotta do it...unless...I don't want to be sick!

Posted by martharita on 01.2008   0 comments
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