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Doggie who do maths!

It's almost been a week after visiting the pet shop and I am so interested in Jack Russell since then. It is exactly the kind of dog that I found dorable and really want to keep one. Unfortnately, this kind of dog is highly energetic and need to have dog walk at least two times a week! Plenty of trainings will be required, unless you want to have a monster living with you.

An unwell-trained JR will be extremely disastrous and super annoying because he bites and destroys everything you need and love, some has broken the bluetooth ear set, some like tearing off piles after piles of toilet papers...etc. He would bite and scratch the corner of your wall and make your house look like an vintage-ghost hall! The other thing is his smell and poopoo...There are many things I need to considerate before I really adopt or have a new puppy.

Last but not least, if I keep a dog with me, I really want him or her to keep healthy, and therefore exercises are important for their well being, in my opinion. Apart from walk them on the street, a small garden or backyard is might be necessary. I mean, SPACIOUS area is a must for animals, especially these energetic kinds. I knew many people keep their doggies in apartments with no problems at all, but it is only my opinion that an animal should be kept outdoors, to build a doghouse for them. Open space for exercising is necessary. I really don't want to have my dog stay inside a cage...that's the least thing I want to see.

Oh, I miss the JR puppy I saw last week in petshop...I have found a clip about a doggie who knows math, she might doing better than you and me! Click here to see more.

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Posted by martharita on 29.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

 Hello all! Weekend is coming! So excited! Yet, I need to go to school this weekend and fortunately, the class will be in afternoon, all I want is more sleep and sleep and sleep...16


Apart from the school, I need to have prepare the testing...oh shit, it is on coming Wednesday!!!!!405 Time flies!!! I feel like there is plenty of time as if there is one more week to go!! I can't believe it come that soon! The lecturer is a smart guy and he warned us in his class that, "乜我唔會肥人架﹖"359 shit! I dont really wnat to do anything this weekend, excpet going out shopping and outdoor activities...


Heard from G that Jimmy has lost his ar choi, I am really sad for him as he loves his pet soooooo much, it liekd part of him...hope that his doggie are doing good in heaven, and so do your kitty, G. I think he's fine in his heaven and jumping up and down to catch butterflies22, maybe he's more happy than we know 408


Weekend is coming, just feeling excited and wanted to write something in quick moment.


Have a nice weekend all! Cheers.207


Posted by martharita on 25.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

Jack Russel

尋晚同G去左勝利道睇KITTIES。我地去到一間叫寵物城既地方,地下果層賣狗狗286,上面果層賣貓貓283。原本係應該陪G睇貓先,但係下面果層見到D狗狗好活潑咁,我就忍唔住行埋去睇喇。其中一隻係jack russell,佢同佢哥哥都係尋日先到貨,係2月19日出世架~即係雙魚座喇410。佢哥哥係上面果欄,佢就訓左係下面果格度。我埋去既時候,佢阿哥懶洋洋咁,成日用眼尾「悄」我,咁寸,我就唔係好想彩佢喇。跟住望一望佢細佬,佢個樣好似發緊夢咁,望一望你,二話不說就想衝過黎喇,點知「啪」一聲,佢圓圓既頭仔就撞左埋塊玻璃度,好彩佢都仲細,力度就唔會好大,應該冇乜事。我企係個玻璃前面勁同佢玩,佢就好似好想出黎咁,成日就想用個身痴落你度,又係咁伸條脷仔出黎啵~~~哎呀~~見佢係咁奶個玻璃邊,都真係有d登佢可憐。完本隔離個sales係度sell緊另一個客,佢地拎左另一隻狗狗出黎係地下玩,我都忍唔住,就叫另一個拎佢出黎畀我睇喇。

佢d毛好短,個身又圓圓地,放佢係地下度,佢就好似發左巔咁係咁係度個圈度跑,勁活躍。我睇到都好開心呀!因為覺得咁樣係健康既象徵,難得佢願意周圍explore,唔係怕生嘛!阿G伸隻手埋去,佢就係咁lamp佢隻手,我初時以為佢係試味,lamp一陣就走開自己玩,點知佢又一直繼續lamp,我都睇到心郁郁又想試埋一份,又伸隻手出去,佢初時唔彩我架。後來摸下佢,搞下佢條頸,佢就開始痴人喇,又係發左巓咁起勢咁lamp,跟住又咬實我d手指唔放。我初初都怕痛,但又冇事喎!一d痛都冇,真係好kawaii~~我好鍾意佢呀343343343343343343343343


抱住佢個肚仔,佢真係好似佢地咁,郁都唔郁,好乖架~~~



大個左就會咁喇,成個「佬」咁。


有得坐主人個車,佢自覺好威咁啵!


「呀﹖你講呀﹖」


「接我返屋企啦~~」
「我都想呀,阿媽唔鍾意呢!而且你成皮甼咁貴...我養唔起你呀!」
「嗚嗚~~~~」

有d主人同佢地去玩,拍左條片,真係精力旺盛﹕

Posted by martharita on 25.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

oH SHIT!

I just learnt that I have two more assignments to go plus 1 presentation and 1 test is waiting for me next week! SHit!

I thought I have finished my other assignments, I just put them aside and will review it all over again in a few minutes tomorrow, I thought I am safe. Then I am told that I have missed some important things in one of the assignment and add more things for other assignment. Gosh...it's liked nightmare, it won;t let you go
Posted by martharita on 23.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

而家仲係公司呀!正確黎講係office...記得有次同人講我係公司,d人唔知我講乜。

呢期晚晚都係寫索樓留得夜,之唔係因為交功課咯!屋企部腦run得太慢,公司又有printer,點解唔好好利用呢﹖不過print左出黎d野幾多係會睇呢﹖講真,盡可能我都想睇曬佢,個心同自己咁講。

睇完michaelpow既blog,我估我都要好似果位仁兄咁,未至於背字典,但都要炮書...(好多書,睇唔曬...好灰)

我以為讀呢科會接觸多d counselling,以為讀完之後都會學到一招半式,但到而家發現原來所有野都係靠實踐同自修,學識先有所進步。以前睇既可能係平較通俗一d,例如women from venus, men from mars呢d,睇既時候會著重實用多於一切。但而家睇既,「實用」呢兩個字好似根本係扯唔上,反而係數字,呢個概念有冇理論、數據支持,講左既野要負責任,要認數,冇得吹完水就算。同舊公司既「內容唔緊要,最緊要效果」比起上黎,舊公司呢套令我有點毛骨悚然既感覺,就好似大陸果d假乜假物咁,佢仲要打正旗號「專業心理學」,驚驚講返counselling,真係覺得自己冇進步,因為唔敢做!傾計就可以,但做cousnelling當中實在有好多技巧,仲有好多理論、唔同既treatments方法,仲有唔同既學 說同model,如果能夠把握概念,或者可以做得比較有責任一d,起碼係開左人地個心,識得同人修返。寫到呢度,突然醒起有人話自己入室弟子同埋自己可以做CP,仲要話人(即係我)讀「conseling、讀幾多書都冇用」,哇!真係體現「無知」至係力量,起碼蚱量大到唔怕畀人笑、畀人鬧!

其中一份功課係要講個case,我邊有case!唯有搵d朋友過橋,懶係「分析」下佢當時既情況。一邊寫時,就發現當時自己既無知。因為我一邊寫一邊搵資料,慢慢才了解,或者叫多一個角度了解朋友當時既心路歷程,可能佢經歷左呢d唔開心野,佢最需要既可能係呢d呢d,作為佢朋友既我,冇提供到畀佢。當時都係朋友咁同佢傾計,果時有少少內疚既感覺 ,覺得如果我可以咁體諒佢,唔知佢會唔會好d﹖

不過而家果位朋友我搵唔返,唔知點解。但呢個功課令我好想根想讀好d書,對d野了解多d,就能夠幫助身邊既人。呢個都係我當初讀呢科既想法。



Posted by martharita on 22.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

regular update

Hello everyone!

Remember the days I keep my blog updated, it's been awhile from the post I put on Sunday. During the first month of work, I am not really busy at the moment but my studies are running crazy becuase the deadlines and tests and presentation are coming.

Because of this constant stress, I don't really have a good time during this couple of weeks. I could not sleep well, especially and humid weather and the typhoon, it really make people sick.

I am still late for my work :P Fortunately, there is no one checking your punctuality...Besides taht, I can have my interested paper printed extremely easily and freely instead of liked doing creepy things at WPDI. Also there is a medical library right downstairs, very convenient to borrow books.

There is nothing special at the moment,all I want is to finish every assignment then shift my attention back to my work. I can no longer stand in between work and studies anymore. It's liked being torn by two forces, it is really really tiring. When can I have a rest? a real, relaxing, worry-free peaceful rest?
Posted by martharita on 22.2008   11 comments
Category :無所事事

Run! Fatboy run!


No 3 signal has been hoisted today. There was heavy rain, no place to go but escape to indoor shopping mall for passing the time of the day.

The mall was so cold, it was liked a freezer for porks. I was so cold and I wanted to have something good and warm for my day. I went into H&M to see anything is good, gosh, a lot of goodies, nice shocking pink laces dress, sexy cutting and colourful pattern slip dress, dazzling earrings, chic and cute looking handbags, funky checkers pant...the queue of dressing room was soooo long and my fire for putting the new things on was killed instantly.

It was birthday of sister-in-law yesterday, I hit almost every single make up store for something  nice and girly for her. I spent hours and finally I have got a little gift from Anna Sui , I hope she would love it.

I was happy during my gift hunting as I can have a chance of trying "new" things at the shops, poor D has to stay with me and being dragged into every single stores. Thanks for  your patience and tolerance435, you have been the most wonderful company to me 392.

After the long cosmetic trip, we went to Langham Place for movie. I have seen the trailer before and no doubt, it is a typical, entertaining and very English movie. it's not bad indeed.

The movie is about a man, Dennis, who left his pregnant fiancé and ran away on his wedding day. Although he regret so much about his stupidity and wanted to win her back since then, few years later, his fiancé has met someone else and will get married someday. Dennis determined to join a marathon as an act to win her back.

The story is easy and simple. In the movie, it was said that every runner will hit the "wall" in the middle of marathon, which means reaching the his physical limit where he thought he could run no more, the only thing he can think of is to quit the game. Dennis, who is NEVER able to finish anything in his life did hit the wall, and break it (of course) and finally, he leap his wall and reach the other side of him. People in the cinema seemed touched by the scene. I could hear a few claps during then.424

It is familiar with using marathon as a metaphor for life. However, it did move me when I saw Dennis break his wall, keep running and run to the finish point to get the loves he wants. I am happy for him, for anyone persists to get the thing he or she wants.

I then asked myself, have I ever or could I have such perseverance to get the things I want? How many times I was liked Dennis, that giving up easily, that was so close to it and then just turn away from it then think that I might not good enough to get things I want? I quit because I am afraid, I thought I don't deserve it and probably screw it up then regret when the opportunity is gone...

I know, life is really liked a marathon, there are a lot of things we need in order to get to the finish point. It is a game that compete with myself. In order to get to the end point, I have to know where it is then to decide how can I get there, and finally, just stick to it and keep running......at the end of the day, I think I will know I am on the right track. I am a lousy runner, here and now, I really want to run, not run away.
Posted by martharita on 20.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

Art of Being Healthy

A classmate has sent me an email about living a healthy life.
I am amused when I see the word of "Art" describing living a healthy life. It means we really need to pay attention, take effort to polish the way/style we live. It is not about what brand name bags we use, dresses we have, make ups we wear, restauants we go, places to hang around but something as below:

If you don't want to be ill ...
Speak your feelings.

If you don't want to be ill ...
Make decisions.

If you don't want to be ill ...
Find solutions.

If you don't want to be ill ...
Don't live by appearance.

If you don't want to be ill
Accept.

If you don't want to be ill
Trust.

If you don't want to be ill ,
Do not live sad.

If you don't want to be ill ...
Please click here to get the beautiful powerpoint with soothing music and refreshing scenry.
Posted by martharita on 18.2008   0 comments
Category :精神食糧

最甜的蜜糖可使味覺麻木;
不太熱烈的愛情才會維持久遠;
太快和太慢,結果都不會圓滿。
- 沙士比亞



你或許無法隨心所欲地逃避關係中
的困難,卻可自由地塑造自己面對
困難的態度。



夫婦者,非有骨肉之親、
愛則親,不愛則疏。
- 韓非子
Posted by martharita on 16.2008   0 comments
Category :金石良言

車房仔大學生

作者﹕何李麗珍

還記得十多年前,某大年初一清晨,接到由加拿大兩位學生打來的拜年電話,心裡實是高興,又有兩位學生可出國留學了。

上月一次聚餐,再重遇亞彬,由他親口道出一個令我敬佩的故事。

我教亞彬之時,他是個純品受教的好學生,是位班長;怎料升中之後,與老師合不來,變成搗蛋頑皮,中三便輟學了。遊蕩了一段時期,知道要自找生活,便到車房去當學徒。一次,聽到親戚的嘲弄:「賺到錢又怎樣,一日要躺車底,無出色!」他就決意半工讀,晚上到車房附近的一所夜中學上課。沒想到那所是間「六級」中學(比當時的五級還差),學生回校都是聊搗事,幾經投訴,依然於事無補,他便撇下一年學費,要求校方替他報考會考,自己就在工餘勤讀,

結果考得合格成績。

那年暑假,有位同學要往加拿大繼續升學,在送機之時,多口之餘,請他在那邊探路。就此,半年後,亞彬亦踏上海外留學之途。他坦然說,當時並無心往加國讀書,只不過是想搭路往那邊找工作罷了!怎料一讀就修了兩個學位,而在車房所學又在那邊大派用場,足夠支付他的一切生活所需。畢業後,他在政府機構工作,甚是愜意,但在九一一後,他決意回港與家人共聚。

回港後,正值這不景氣之時,大半年也找不到工作,他只好接納一份三千元的工作。

回內地管工程的差事。又是那車房所學,助他跟那些泥頭車司機,地盤主管等來得稔熟,事事順利,因此得大老闆垂青,把他掉回香港總公司去負責環保工程。

亞彬說:「經歷了這麼多,覺得人實在非常渺小,無什麼可誇耀的,只有不斷學習。」

亞彬,老師也要跟你學習啊!
塞翁失馬,焉知非福。

有時我會因失去一件東西、一個人、一段感情、一份肯定、一份工作或一點面子而耿耿於懷。之後只掂記著那失去的東西對我曾經有多重要,對我有多好,與我有多配合,除此之外,我以後真的沒有辦法再找另一個比他/它更好,更合我意的xx了。

我相信以上的都是真人真事。那句「人實在非常渺小,無什麼可誇耀的,只有不斷學習」,真的是經歷過,然後看通放下了的人才能明白的道理。

原本是最壞的,竟然造就將來成功的關鍵。阿彬在車房自怨自哎,怨命運對自己有多不好,放棄自己,其實是多容易的事情。我不是要說那些抱著積極、正面態度邁向人生的說話,而是,有時候,我想感覺、與實際情況是可以分開來看的。假如感覺令我們自暴自棄,可不可以試試暫時放下這些感覺,先做一些應做的事情呢﹖

我想,亞彬做車房時應該想不到自己竟然能夠走出這條路。不過能夠放下,然後二話不說,踏實地做應做的事,......的確不易。我想,即使事情有時真不如人意,起碼自己問心無愧,不用老來後悔當初自己為甚麼這樣這棣,那樣那樣...
Posted by martharita on 14.2008   0 comments
Category :金石良言

A man who falls in love in incomplete, until he's get married,






















then, he's finished.



hahahahahahha, 笑到標眼水,唔記得左邊度出處。
Posted by martharita on 14.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

夫婦溝通 ~ 你準備好了嗎?

以下文章既問題,其實自己都經常忽略,經營一段關係也好,經營自己也好,最重要的都是用心,有時,腦袋反而阻礙了成長。
步入教堂的那一刻,你憧憬著甚麼呢?當你承諾與你的另一半結為合法夫婦的那一刻,你又憧憬著甚麼呢?是不是王子與公主婚後過著美滿愉快的生活呢?如果答對了,哪你有沒有想過可以做什麼來令你的婚姻生活美滿愉快?

要令婚姻美滿,良好的夫婦溝通是少不了的。你懂得與你的伴侶溝通嗎?

1. 你了解你的另一半嗎?
先問問自己,對另一半的了解有多少。因應每一個人的不同性格和特點,我們可以用不同的模式或方法溝通。例如你的伴侶脾氣很剛強,而我們就可以用一些較溫和的方式與他溝通,以免剩下吵架的結局。於是在平日相處的時候,你需要細心留意及認真嘗試不同的方法,與伴侶好好的溝通。

除了因性格不同之外,男女對事物的不同看法,也會阻礙彼此間之溝通。很多人也會說男人喜歡解決問題,而女人則喜歡與別人分享她的問題。所以很多時,在處理問題時,容易造成不快的場面。故我們需要多留意和接納彼此之不同。

2. 你欣賞你的另一半嗎?
你喜歡別人欣賞你嗎?你希望這個人是你的另一半嗎?你伴侶的想法正如你一樣。所有人也希望得到別人的欣賞,尤其是自己重視的人。所以從今日開始,多欣賞你的伴侶。這個欣賞不只在心裏,更需要告訴他/她,讓他/她真正的接收到你的欣賞。

3. 你有表達你的正面要求嗎?很多時候,在看到對方值得欣賞的地方之前,我們往往會看到不滿的地方。為了免傷和氣,你是不是選擇不作聲,隨它過去便算了。其實彼此要坦誠,才能一起共渡漫長的歲月。故當我們有一些不滿或一些要求時,我們適宜向伴侶提出,容讓大家一同面對。當事情處理後,彼此的了解和默契亦會隨之加深。

4. 你有容讓彼此享受私人空間嗎?
結婚久了,很多夫婦因忙於處理家中的大小事務而漸漸忘記了其個人的需要,而這也正是夫婦產生磨擦的源頭之一。所以夫婦間必須留有私人空間去處理自己的需要。這可以是二人放下家中的事務,好好的享受一個下午,談談理想,憧憬未來的生活,重拾拍拖時的感覺。也可以分別參加一些不同的活動,擴著二人的世界,令話題加,讓彼此的關係多一個緩衝區。

透過以上的問題,希望有助大家反思自己現時與另一半的溝通是處於一個怎樣的心態,看看你是否真的準備就緒,與伴侶建立更理想的溝通。

資料提供:香港青年協會家庭生活教育組 (元朗區)
Posted by martharita on 14.2008   0 comments
Category :金石良言

Flamenco Jazz Performance by Jerez-Texas



Musical lovers will be amazed and delighted by our concluding event for the Spanish Semester, the Flamenco Jazz performance by a Spanish musical group - Jerez-Texas.

Their improvisation originates from jazz, and is a bridge between classical music and flamenco. More information about the group can be found at www.jereztexas.com/.

Do come and enjoy this iconoclastic experience with us on April 24, 2008 at 6:30 pm at Loke Yew Hall, Main Building, HKU.

Admission is free and all are welcome.
Registration can be made online at www.hku.hk/socsc/globalvision/spain/.

We look forward to seeing you and your friends there!

Enquiries
Miss Alice Lai (tel : 2859 1097 / email : lhya@hkucc.hku.hk)

Posted by martharita on 14.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

Get into the J-pop Groove

If you are J-pop fans, this event is for you!
Everyone who attends will receive a special souvenir! (while stocks last)

The School of Modern Languages and Cultures, HKU, in association with four music labels, AVEX Asia, EMI Music Hong Kong, Forward Music and SONYBMG Music Entertainment, is holding an amazing Japanese Music Video Show on campus.

'Get into the J-pop Groove'
Date: April 16, 2008 (Wednesday)
Time: 12:45 – 6:00 pm
Venue: Global Lounge, G/F, Fong Shu Chuen Amenities Centre

YUI, 平井堅, and 宇多田光 are just a few of the many Japanese singers who have become immensely popular with young people in Hong Kong. If you like what you've heard so far and are interested in finding out more about J-pop music and culture, this is your chance.

During the show, the producer of the famous J-pop radio program '是日本人鄭家輝', DJ Cheng Ka Fai, will share the latest J-pop MTVs with you. There will also be a lucky draw and some fun games with prizes – so don’t miss out! Get into the J-pop Groove at the Global Lounge!

And if you have any J-pop questions, Cheung Ka Fai will be happy to share his views with you! Please send your questions to oioi_fion@yahoo.com.hk.

This event is part of Japan Month at HKU 2008. It is coordinated by Fion Lam and Cherry Tung as part of their coursework for JAPN 3014 'Project in Japanese Business'.

Admission is free. All are welcome.
No registration needed.

For enquiries, please contact Lucilla Cheng on 2859 2049 or email luci@hkucc.hku.hk.
Posted by martharita on 14.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

An one-year introductory course on Family Reconstruction

家庭治療旨在協助家庭與個人完成階段性任務,讓保守家庭面對發展性的變化時,不再堅持既有的模式,重新調適改變自身平衡的機制,不過一旦家庭危機太強時,家庭自然平衡會失去效率,陷入困境中,不知道如何站起來,此時應該求助家庭諮商機構或精神科作家庭治療,協助家中成員了解現今所處的階段,並且協助家庭找尋可力的資源,看到盲點,幫助家庭找到新生的力量。

An one-year introductory course for helping professionals who intend to incoroporate Family Reconstruction, part or whole, into their clinical practice.

Unique Features
1. In its being based on the Satir Model, sensitive to local cultural practice, and enhanced by Focusing
2. In providing training opportunity to each participant to be star in a Family Reconstruction, and to be facilitator and member of a facilitating-team in the FRs of other participants
3. In video-recording FR practice sessions, with each star and facilitator receiving a copy of the recording for individual, trio and class learning

What can participants expect from this course?
Under normal circumstances, and given full participation, participants can expect to have through the duration of the course
1. Exposure to the principles and the practice of a Satir-based, Focusing-oriented, and culturally sensitive Family Reconstruction
2. Personal experience in the power and the process of Family Reconstruction, as participant, star, and very likely also as role-player;
3. Acquisition of knowledge and experience as well as qualities and skills for facilitating Family Reconstruction
4. Formation of peer relationships that support continuing personal and professional development

Trainers’ Profiles
Dr. Grace Cheung , PhD, RSW
Dr. Grace Cheung is Hon. Assistant Professor, Dept. of Social Work and Social Administration, HKU; Member of Executive Committee, Center on Behavioral Health, HKU; and Consultant, Resculpt – Center for Personal and Relational Reconstruction. Grace has been marriage
and family therapist for 29 years.

Peter KH Cheung, PhD
Dr. Peter Cheung is Consultant, Resculpt – Center for Personal and Relational Reconstruction; Honorary Research Fellow, Centre on Behavioral Health, HKU, and Advisory Committee Member, Oasis – Center for Personal Growth and Crisis Intervention, Hospital Authority. Peter received formal training in philosophy, theology, and sociology.

Medium of Instruction: Primarily Cantonese

Class Dates ((Sat/9 am – 6 pm)
6, 20 Sept; 4, 5 Oct; 1, 15, 29 Nov; 13 Dec, 2008;
3, 17, 31 Jan; 14, 28 Feb; 14, 28 Mar; 18 Apr; 9, 23 May;
6, 20 Jun, 2009

Enquiries
Contact Grace through her pager 72991953 or call Peter at his Mobile 93638171 or email: enquiry@resculpt.com
佢冇講駛唔駛錢啵!

Posted by martharita on 14.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

新環境

好老土架!

唔知係咪機既問題,或者係個blog太多flash,load唔夠一陣就hang機喇!所以近期我都好少係日頭update個blog,加上自己部腦太慢,都唔會udpate自己個blog啦!

返新工返左1個禮拜喇,唔知係咪因為實在時間太早,整星期都唔夠訓,同埋始終新環境,有DD壓力,一放假咋,個心即刻好想去玩。覺得好似玩極都唔夠,我D老毛病又黎喇!

呢個禮拜帶飯同出去食都有,不過大部分人都係帶飯既,畢竟出去食都幾麻煩架。D同事通常都係坐的的去西環,果度就好似NP咁好多街小巷,不過就仲舊!但都好似幾多選擇咁,我都好想跟佢地出去食多D,熟下個區先,萬一得自己一個,都知訂點去點返「屋企」。

未做大學前都聽過唔少朋友講過大學做野D生活係點,心裏面或多或少都知道大環境同自己個性有幾大出入!不過冇計啦,似乎自己而家想拎既野淨係呢個地方先提供到,所以真係一個機會。即使環境、氣氛、人事、架構等等有幾唔同,我估,都係講適應,唯有盡量適應啦!不過返工時間就真係仲未適應到!但我相信我已經叫做搵到個最快既方法喇!不過好貴呀!

以前對做學術/研究既人都冇乜特別留意,不過黎到呢度,真係覺得同出面既人好唔同。因為出任何報告都要真憑實據,所謂evident-based,吹水,冇back-up,係唔得架架!可能因為未熟啦,所以留意到既都係可能只係表面野而已。不過覺得佢地好好好認真!家常便話都好似特別小心咁,隨時驚畀人捉住做話柄。或者除左「研究」態度外,大學真係好大,一個department其實牽涉好多人,有斟茶阿姐、內部傳送文件既人、整門口個鎖又有一個專人,跟住又有instructor、professor、doctor...又有admin同事、文書同事......當中有d又係外籍人事,然後又成日一確確類似學生既物體係走廊徘徊,同以前果間公司簡直冇得比!煞那間,我竟然有d唔適應!以前都做過大公司丫,點會咁架~~慣左就係慣左...所以,真係唔好咁易畀自己停!會au底架!

呢度差不多所有staff都是professor呀、doctor呀咁,除左admin同事。講真,以前我真係唔係好care呢d title既野,但人地就好重視,黎到呢度就更深深地體會到呢d title簡直好似係佢地條命咁重要,嗌錯左,佢地真係會介意架!唔知係咪淨係HKU,呢度個個既official language都係英文,平時好好地,但一到presentation,就自動轉左channel用英文,即使在座都係中國人。

日常既對話,雖然唔係用technical terms,但其實對話既context,好多都牽涉到人事關係,d人物多到好似三國誌咁,又Prof. Leung、Prof Cheung,有時又Doctor Au Yeung......總之冇人係mister咯,同埋我分唔到男定女咯!

有次同老細開會,講開做家庭既野,佢講到究竟我地應該集中做邊類家庭呢﹖「我地想講多dnuclear family,定係at-risk family呢﹖...」咦,d terms讀書都冇講過既﹖

我覺得自己就好似一個新鮮人,做野既同學既野完全冇關係!原本覺得有d壓力,因為覺得以前既唔係好幫到自己,唔知點樣可以行好d......倒不如我就當自己新鮮人一樣,將以前學到既、賺到既都放埋一邊,重新pick up呢d新野,就好似小朋友咁,忘記昨天,不想將來,只看今天發生的事。

讓大家多了解本人工作近況,於pantry拍了這張海景照,這幢樓房坐擁超級無敵大西海,天氣好一點,還可遠眺南丫島耶~~~
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天氣好,可以望遠d!個海有一達達既藍色,就好似沖繩咁架!我最鍾意呢d夏日feel喇!hku20080414.jpg


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紅色圈住既就係南丫島果三條煙囪!就係覺得前所未有地近過!大佬,我返工架!!!駛唔駛咁呀!

hku (1)
我每日返工都會經過西區公園。以前覺得好鬼遠架......

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hku20080414 (3)
拿!家徒四壁咪就係咁解咯!中間果位係我架。中間仲隔住partition,係咪真係好自修室呢!

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呢度都好興帶飯,今日我就食呢個前兩日食剩既泡菜豬肉炒飯,加送泡菜一個。

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話咁快又完左一科喇。同學仔影大合照。知唔知我係邊呢﹖
Posted by martharita on 14.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

蘭修女智慧語錄

最美好的一天?    今天
最簡單的事?     犯錯
最大的阻礙?     害怕
最嚴重的錯誤?    自暴自棄
萬惡的根源?     自私
最好的休生活?  工作
最沈重的挫敗?    灰心
最好的老師?     兒童
最優先的需要?    溝通
最令人快樂的事?  幫助別人
人生最大的謎?    死亡
人最大的缺點?    壞脾氣
最低劣的感覺?    怨恨
最貴的禮物?     恕
最不可或缺的?    家庭
最短的捷徑?     直路
最使人愉的感覺? 內心的平安
最幸福的保單?   微笑
最有效的解決之道? 樂觀
最大的滿足?     完成該做的事情
全世界最強大的力量?父母
世界上最美麗的?   愛

最大的喜樂之一?擁有真正的朋友--知道有人與你同在,即使他們不一定能幫你解決問題 。
【家】(這不是蘭修女的)

家不是講理的地方,是講愛的地方
愛一時容易,愛一生一世卻不容易

愛一個人……
要了解,亦要開解;
要道歉,亦要道謝;
要認錯,亦要改錯;
要體貼,亦要體諒;

是接受,而不是忍受;
是包容,而不是縱容;
是支持,而不是支配;
是慰問,而不是質問;

是傾訴,而不是控訴;
是難忘,而不是遺忘;
是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代;
是為對默默方祈求,
而不是向對方諸多要求;

可以浪漫,但不要浪費;
可以隨時牽手,但不要隨便分手;

以上都做到了,即使不再愛一個人,
也只有懷念,而不是懷恨。
Posted by martharita on 11.2008   0 comments
Category :金石良言

The rose

Beautiful lyrics and video. touching ;')


Some say love
It is a river
有人說愛像一條河

That drowns the tender reed
淹沒了柔弱的蘆葦

Some say love
It is a razor
有人說愛像剃刀

that leaves your soul to bleed.
讓你的靈魂淌血

Some say love
It is a hunger
有人說愛像渴望

and endless staking need
以及永不停止的需要

I say love
It is a flower
我說愛像一朵花

And you
it's only seed
而你就是種子

It's the heart
Afraid of breaking
是怕碎的心

That never
learns to dance
學不會飛舞

It's the dream
afraid of waking
是怕醒的夢

that never takes the chance
抓不住機會

It's the one
who won't be taking
是不懂得接受的人

Who cannot seem to give
也是學不會付出的人

And the soul
afraid of dying
怕死的靈魂

that never
learns to live.
學不會怎麼活下去

When the night
has been too lonely
and the road
has been too long
當夜太寂寞而路太長

and you think
that love is only
for the lucky
and the strong
而你以為只有幸運者和強者才配得著愛

Just remember
只要記得

in the winter
在冬天

far beneath the bitter snow
深埋在淒苦冰雪之下

lies the seed
有種子

that with the sun's love
因著陽光的愛

in the spring
在春天

becomes the rose.
就變成 玫瑰
Posted by martharita on 10.2008   0 comments
Category :娛樂無窮

從MBTI 16性格 認識人生藍圖

主講:余栢誠先生

(香港職業發展服務處總輔導主任、Qualified MBTI@ Administrator)

簡介:透過源自心理分析大師容格 (Carl Jung) 所發展的性格類型分析理論,經Katharine C. Briggs及Isabel B. Myers改良的MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) 性格類型分析,使參加者藉簡單快捷的評估及介紹各類性格特徵,協助職場人士掌握個人性格潛能,除了拓展個人的職業發展藍圖,化解不必要的人事衝突。

內容:簡單性格自我評估、職業與潛能配對、化解人事衝突要訣
_____________________________________________________________________

主辦:信仰生活互動坊、塔冷通心靈書舍
日期:4月25日(週五)晚上7:30-9:30
地點:塔冷通心靈書舍(油麻地彌敦道523號禮基大廈一樓) (油麻地地鐵站B1出口)
對象:任何人士(尤其適合準備加入或已加入職場的年輕人)
費用:全免 歡迎捐獻
報名:2782 2027 梁小姐


** 歡迎walk-in 參加 **
認識自己 拓展生命藍圖
Posted by martharita on 10.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

分秒必爭

搬了新地方工作,不少習慣都要適應和調節。

工作的地方位於偏遠的貝沙灣附近,沒有交通工具可以由家裏直接出發。幸運地得到不少協助,得識其實可從不同地方出發,可是早上交通無論如何哪兒都是人多車多,那兒都得面對塞車問題。

昨天800從家出發,925到工作地點。
今天745從家出發,915到工作地點。

得再試試新方法。

這兒的環境挺不錯,不少房間都坐擁無敵大海景,不過沒有我的份兒。我和新相識的同事坐在一間極似自修室的房間裏,各自各做要做的事,剛發現原來連手提電話差點收不到訊號!老細極度忙碌,我第一天到職,差不多等到下班才有機會會面,給我解釋我的職責和期望。

這份工作跟以往的很不同,性質、流程、人脈等等對的來說都是全新的,唯一不變的老細對你的要求。很多東西要摸索和pick up。

哈哈,慢慢來吧,就當遊樂場一樣,慢慢摸索,感受,張開眼睛看清楚。
Posted by martharita on 08.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

想放下那個批判的自己。

那個我陪我走了一段不短的路,為我做過很多重要的決定,理性的分析,擋開難以承受的壓迫,讓我面對挑戰時懂得抽離、面對,然後處理,平安的渡過難關。

不過,那個批判的我如今讓我吃了不少苦頭。她阻礙了我的成長,面對事情時,我不能以最真實的角度面對;腦裏充滿很多批判性的聲音。以前我很想擺脫,可惜我擺脫不了;原來,這個都是我的一部分。

我不想做自己的判官,正如經文說﹕「求 你  恕 我 們 的 罪 過 , 如 同 我 們  恕 別 人 一 樣 」假如每天我都要給自己批判最少一次,又給別人批評幾次,那我如何得到自己的恕,又如何恕別人呢﹖我不想成為小器、斤斤計較的人。

我希望得到自由,用最單純的心體驗生命的每種滋味,然後感恩。
Posted by martharita on 03.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

Cat Power......

What things are the most impressive you think in the movie of My Blueberry Nights? The car that Norah Jones and Natalie Portman drive? The window of the small cafe? The keys left for Jude? The green hat Norah wears? The corner of the street of Norah's aprtment? The casino? The long endless road to Las Vegas? Too many...The most impressive of Wong's movie for me is the music. After listening to it, I just cannot get over it and it keeps humming in my mind.

http://www.catpowerthegreatest.com/

Cat Power - The Greatest


She is popular now, you might recognise same sadness of music that playing loud in the movie "uno". Mm...it is really beautiful. Wonder if her album sound as good as now?
Cat Power - Sea Of Love (Juno Soundtrack)
Posted by martharita on 02.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

Across the universe......

有些事情開始了,就一發不可收拾......

Hey Jude


All you need is love


Dear Prudence


I want to hold your hand
It's a beautiful voice, isn'ti t? The more I watch and read, the more information I have got for this girl. Her name is TV Carpio who is the daughter of 杜麗莎!Click here for an interview of her some time ago.
Posted by martharita on 02.2008   0 comments
Category :movies I want to watch

受「寵」若驚!

Dear R,

Just had a meeting with Zola about the details of the sitemap, we have to submit the revised one by April 3, 2008.

1)Revised sitemap (please call me for the revised area)
2)Explanation on the major content of the each flow (supporting document of the sitemap)
3)A Table of Regular Web Update: who is the responsible person and the flow of submission

除左話我得到公司信任,離任在職都要交託重任予本人,否則,我都想不到為何一間公司會係呢個時候對呢個員工做咁樣既野。其實已經做左畀佢地,不過亦可能因為太早做左,亦太早send左畀佢地,又或者佢地成日開會太忙,所以唔記得已經收過,...大老細講過文件都佢都會睇過一次先,所以佢次次見我都同我講佢有幾千個email未睇,或者係700幾個emails未睇......我都覺得佢真係好忙架!忙到自己有幾多個email未睇都咁鉅細無遺,我覺得佢真係好can啵!

呢幾日天氣唔好,起身時出面落雨落到好大聲,聽到沙啦沙啦的雨聲,真係好想訓多陣呀~~唔覺意又訓耐左......原本都想靜靜地過埋呢幾日,好好安排呢度「身後事」,點知公司真係唔會手軟,驚死你唔知係公司既自我價值有幾咁高,係咁畀野我做,用行動話我知﹕If I can, yes! You can!。

好恐怖呀!放過我啦!一人行一步,大家都好做,d野cher咁盡,唔怪得個個唔係住面,就喊住口走啦!反省下啦!Caring Company!

前兩日係電視睇到《阿飛正傳》,oh!好好睇!Xavier Cugat既音樂又再次係我既speakers出現!好鍾意呀~!
Posted by martharita on 01.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事
 

Profile

一個徹底的白羊人。做事憑一股衝勁,接著後勁不繼,即朋友說的3分鐘熱度。怎麼說好呢﹖


即使只有3分鐘熱度,也學習如何好好發揮,成為最漂亮的永恆。

martharita

Author:martharita
事事有時節,天下任何事皆有定時: 生有時,死有時,栽種有時,拔除栽種的亦有時; 殺戮有時,治療有時,拆毀有時,建築有時; 哭有時,笑有時,哀悼有時,舞蹈有時; 拋石有時,堆石有時;擁抱有時,戒避擁抱亦有時; 尋找有時,遺失有時;保存有時,捨棄有時; 撕裂有時,縫綴有時;緘默有時,言談有時, 愛慕有時,憎恨有時;作戰有時,和睦有時。

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