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Posted by martharita on 29.2008   1 comments
Category :無所事事

Across the universe + Miss Pettigrew lives for a day

"Living is easy with eyes closed..."

從前似懂非懂的說話,長大了才真正體會當中滋味。電影網站以我曾經十分喜愛的Strawberry field作開場曲,細看故事內容,令我對它甚感興趣!

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來自英國利物浦的男孩朱特徒具繪畫天賦,為了生活只能在碼頭當工人,後來因尋找父親而遠度重洋,在美國普林斯頓大學認識了麥士和他美麗純潔的妹妹露茜。三人一同往紐約闖蕩,朱特與露茜更墮入愛河,他們無拘無束、自由奔放地戀愛,還積極地投身於反戰和反主流文化的運動,一同經歷心智飽受考驗的美國60年代。

然而,面對來自外界的各種衝突及鎮壓,他倆無奈分開,各自走向不同的道路……天涯兜轉,老友重聚又砰然心動……

導演 : 茱莉泰摩
演員 : 伊雲麗素活, 占史杜哲斯, 祖安迪遜
片長 : 134 分鐘
級數 : IIA
語言 : 英語 (中文字幕)


看了trailer,就似mtv一樣,想起現時美國勁紅的high school musical, 不知道這電影是否也因其啟發而拍呢﹖official website內充斥不少我十分喜愛的歌曲,如Lennon的Strawberry field等,男主角似乎也擁有一把好聲線,歌喉不俗,令人容易接受。劇情似乎也十分吸引,年輕戀人經歷動蕩年代的電影,想起幾年前的《Dreamers》,當時的女主角一炮而紅,如今已成為新一代007的邦女郎了。世界只有戀人的愛情電影,我又想起《Before Sunset》和《Before Sunrise》,這兩套電影都是我十分喜愛的。不知道這電影又會是甚麼味道呢﹖




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《巴姐搞轉娛樂圈》故事發生於1939 年的倫敦,人稱「巴姐」的家庭女教師比格(法蘭絲麥杜曼 飾)向來生活枯燥,最新動向是被無良僱主豉椒炒魷。巴姐自此嚴重缺乏生活費,被迫「攔途截擊」一份她從來不會考慮的差事──為娛樂圈當紮姐仔黛思雅(艾美雅當絲 飾)當上「社交秘書」。

掛名「社交秘書」其實好睇唔好食,巴姐除了成為黛思雅的貼身二打六外,最麻煩是協助對方處理愛情與事業上種種難題。偏偏美艷的黛思雅勁旺桃花,經常為周旋身旁的三位狂風浪蝶忙過不停──包括滿懷熱誠鋼琴家邁克爾(里爾比斯 飾)、行霸道夜總會老闆力克(馬克史安 飾)、事事敏感的樂團經理人菲爾(湯拜恩 飾),巴姐職責上需要為她四周擋駕,惹落不少牙齒印。

導演 : 巴克勒拿路尼
演員 : 艾美雅當絲, 法蘭絲麥杜曼
片長 : 92 分鐘
級數 : IIA
語言 : 英語 (中文字幕)

第一次看過電影trailer後便愛上了!怎料它真的在香港上畫!很想看啊!

可能因為自少讀女校關係,對於女性成長、自覺等主題的電影自然有一種親切感。電影兩位女角對比強烈,製造不少笑料,也擦出了不少火花!女性聚在一起如話題只有流言斐語、化妝扮靚、湊仔感情之事的話,有時候的確悶到抽筋!悶,還不是因為大家相處時只為消磨時間,「相處」過後又是另一堆朋友,重覆同樣的話題而矣,...彷彿這些話題就是大家相處時能夠「中門大開」的東西。

女性相處其實還有很多很精彩的分享和經歷,有些事情只有女性才知道,才懂得其幽默之處,然後大家報以一個會心微笑,這是一種女性之間的intimacy,其實是很正的!

Posted by martharita on 28.2008   0 comments
Category :movies I want to watch

瀏覽人數

yeah!314自1月新這counter以來,光臨本部落格人數已突破600大關了!多謝各位支持!435

各位參觀者歡迎繼續瀏覽本部落格,亦歡迎於「請留言」部分留下片言隻語,版主會衷心歡喜及感謝你們!謝謝~~~

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Posted by martharita on 28.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

Thank you all

Thank you all! It has been a big year to me. A lot of things happened, some good some bad. Lots of changes, I learnt so much and gained a lot from every one of you, things and events...

Thank you for your kindness and support. Thank you...

Last night after class, D came and picked me up for dinner. Thank him for sweet kindness. I was happy when I saw see him in such an surprising way at the door of the room.

We went to CWB 和民 for dinner. There is no big birthday cake, no big bunch of flowers or any bustling and noisy parites. There are notmany people knows my birthday. I thought a laid back style should be more appropriate for me. However, I felt liked I have missed something nearly at the end of the day...I wonder should I do throw a party for myself and make it loud as possible as I could for my next bday.
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Posted by martharita on 28.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

Nice B-day lunch

After the dinner buffet last week, I supposed my b-day 'party" has been held and therefore there is NO special arrangement today. I have had lunch with d and we had a great meal! おいしいね!

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Thank you d!

I have had a great delicious lunch! I like the chrysanthemum very much. It is really surprising and exciting to find a place like this. Happy!
Posted by martharita on 27.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

新相機

朋友買左個新相機,千另蚊,效果又幾好啵!搞到我都心思思,好想要返部啊!~~~~
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Posted by martharita on 26.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

行山+BBQ+飲野

大家相約在筲箕灣地鐵站,我從巴士站寺過去見到這幢有特色的建築物,外形就像一隻遊船一樣,停泊在筲箕灣的街道旁邊。不過這艘「船」真的日久失修了。
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因為我同另一位同事R都喜歡拍照,所以愈行愈墮後,最後與同事A索性行最後,慢慢拍照+傾計。其實,行山的確行得慢一些較好。行山不是本人強項(編者註﹕本人沒有強項),所以喜歡邊行邊看身邊景物。有時候,身邊的人行得都很快,我又不想妨礙他人進度,於是唯有跟他們一起急急腳的在山間「暴走」。今次難得遇上同道中人,大家有說有笑,遇到喜歡的景物又可以停下來欣賞和拍照留念,所以很好玩啊!
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R﹕「咦﹖點解張張都影你law pat既﹖」
r﹕「係啵!......」

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仲黎﹖


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有一張正經d喇!

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d花好靚架~~

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呢個都唔知自己影乜。出到黎既效果係雜草一堆。

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大家見到個樹lone都興奮,又係度hae左陣。擺pose時仲驚遮住個lone影唔到,所以要縮低半個人...其實唔駛架~~

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終於行到上山頂喇!好大風呀!


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我地一行三人行到山頂時,r就問﹕咦﹖果個係黎架﹖
R﹕...島咯
r﹕...啊~~
A﹕哈哈哈哈哈......

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行完山其實都幾攰到抽筋。山唔難行,但唔知點解坐低BBQ時就開始眼訓......唯有一直燒一直燒...第一次試過燒到去買野食再燒......燒完之後就去左CWB飲野lu。blush.jpgtriob.jpg
Posted by martharita on 26.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

relationships......

  • accept differences
  • recognize mutual interests
  • improve persuasion skills
  • improve listening skills
  • break the re-active cycle or routine
  • learn to disagree without animosity
  • build confidence in recognizing win-win solutions
  • recognize/admit to/process anger and other emotions
  • solve problems!
Posted by martharita on 25.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

Easter Holidays...

復活節假期又過了,相信不少人仍然在holiday mood之中吧!本人也是呢!這幾天你們做過、到過甚麼地方去呢﹖懶洋洋的我也趁這幾天假期做了些有意義的事,不外是行山和「散心」啦!哈哈哈哈。

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與久違了的同事相約行山去。除了熟識的臉孔外,也有新認識的朋友,平時只有工作上才有機會碰面,今次也算是social gathering的第一次吧!行山後就在Shek O BBQ,之後直踩CWB飲杯野,查實都唔知飲左幾多杯野......

這些都是朋友們的照片,我的遲些再放上來給大家欣賞﹕

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出發咯!約了1230在筲箕灣地鐵等,直到1330本人才莆頭,然後1400所有終於出場了。之後大家坐巴士往第一站出發。

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入夜了,我們去了CWB一間上樓bar飲野。已經很久沒有做夜貓子了。這兒環境其實不錯。Carol某一位朋友衣著剛巧跟bar的waitor太相似,差黠認錯了人。
Posted by martharita on 25.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

創 意 廣 告 - 師 奶 殺 手 扮 大 肚 搶 票

本 港 資 深 廣 告 人 畢 明 稱 , 台 灣 政 治 廣 告 一 向 比 香 港 大 膽 , 因 為 無 下 一 次 , 所 以 一 定 要 拿 到 選 民 所 有 的 注 意 力 。 對 於 馬 英 九 的 大 肚 廣 告 , 畢 明 大 讚 。 她 說 , 一 個 偶 像 派 大 男 人 肯 大 肚 , 將 自 己 代 入 女 性 角 度 , 絕 對 是 贏 盡 一 眾 女 人 心 , 能 夠 鞏 固 女 性 票 源 , 策 略 幾 好 , 視 覺 效 果 亦 很 強 。 大 肚 的 意 念 , 應 該 不 是 出 自 馬 , 這 說 明 馬 有 放 下 身 段 、 接 納 廣 告 幕 僚 意 見 的 胸 襟 。


I like it too 218

Posted by martharita on 20.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

This week is crazy for me, not because of work, but feeling excited about the good news.

It is a small company and therefore news spread extremely fast. A lot of people knows what's going on and I can't help not to show my emotions. Yes, I am happy

I feel liked I finally reach the point of graduation in certain points of my life. I have been stayed here for a year and half, not the longest one I have ever had, however, I have gone through quite a lot challenges or even crisis in this period of time. I am glad I have made it and now, here I am to move to another place for other trainings and challenges.
I am lazy this week and seems to have forgotten the things I have learnt from previous months. I have learnt the importance of gratitude, appreciation, patience and persistence, espeically when the situation is not favourable to you. There are really a lot of things to learn and yet to be learnt, I am careless and lazy, There are lots of things happened which I didn't pay attention to and I have forgotten many lessons that paid with my tears and pains. I deeply thank for those who cares about me and who are demanding me, also for those who have spent time listening to me for whing about tedious stuff.

There is a new beginning waiting for me, a new turning point lies ahead of me. It is always there await of me. I really want to get there and take the prize which has been prepared for me. On the way to get there, I have learnt something, yet I also forget something, I am still afraid or worry that I might screw the good things up then turn them into bad things.

...I have not thought a lot this week and it is time to think and feel again, to know myself, to know the times and people, and to think. Maybe I have to take a further step of accepting one's own faults and flaws, that we always make stupid decisions. Failures are inevitable throughout our lives.

This is the best I can do now, to face myself as honest as I can, then make the decision as best as I could. I don't want to waste my time again on the fantasies or anything that causing troubles for no good.

Posted by martharita on 20.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

Happy B dayssssssssssssss

尋晚去左花園酒店食自助餐慶祝生日。今次主角係L啦、D啦仲有我。

我地放左工之後行過去,估唔到外表睇落麻麻既花園酒店,原來入面又幾OK啵!佢地D燈好得意,好似幾米D南瓜咁,而且環境都好舒服,地板好乾淨。平日原來都有好多人光顧餐廳,但係呢佢地D位就細左少少啦,不過整體都OK架。

Posted by martharita on 19.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

你食左藥未呀﹖

講起精神病,你會諗起乜﹖

我聯想起係一條白色既走廊入面,有好多著住發黃衣服既病人。有d好似喪屍咁係度恰下恰下,有d係度尖叫,有d又好似自閉人咁自言自語......聽d真正到過精神病院既人講,其實個情況真係幾可怕的。我唔知有幾可怕,不過幾得讀u時有個同學仔讀緊abnormal psy,佢分析左唔少case畀我聽,對叫abnormal psy就非常感興趣。

黎緊呢個sem我已經take左呢科喇!部分資料亦已經可以搵到,最正係佢將d電影同精神病患match埋黎講,我覺得實在好過癮,不如公諸同好!喂!各位愛電影之人,記得睇完寫下分享,大家吹下水都好呀!

Illness--Characters in the movie
Dependent -- Diane Keaton in "First Wives Club"
Narcissistic -- "Steph" (James Spader) from "Pretty in Pink"
Antisocial -- Gordon Gekko from "Wall Street"
Histrionic -- Jessica Lange in "Blue Sky"
OCPD -- Miss Daisy (Jessica Tandy) from "Driving Miss Daisy"
Avoidant -- Christian Slater in "Untamed Heart"
Schizoid -- Anthony Hopkins in "The Remains of the Day"
Borderline -- Glenn Close in "Fatal Attraction"
Paranoid -- Al Pacino in "Scarface"
Schizotypal -- DeNiro in "Taxi Driver"
paranoid schizophrenia = Clean Shaven
Blue Velvet - sexual paraphilia and antisocial PD (Dennis Hopper character)
Crash = sexual paraphilias
Hannah and her sisters = Woddy Allen character = hypochondriasis
Mommy Dearest = narcissistic PD, substance dependence
Requiem for a Dream = addiction and substance induced psychosis
Child abuse - Bastard out of Carolina
Posted by martharita on 17.2008   5 comments
Category :Reflections on Behavioural Health

Juno-a story of a spolit generation

假如Juno是你的同學,你會怎樣呢﹖假如Juno是你的家人,你又會怎樣呢﹖從Juno的故事中,你學到了甚麼呢﹖

這電影獲得不少人的支持,認為她是近年的好電影之一。不知道大家喜愛Juno的甚麼呢﹖她的豪情壯語﹖她的直率坦白﹖不少人將之與《陽光小小姐》(Little Miss Sunshine)或《酒佬日記》(Sideways)比較,但還是Juno得到眾人愛戴。某影評說得好,因為看電影時不覺得是看演員演戲,而是角色們彷彿似身邊的朋友一樣般自然真實。這一點我都認同的。

不過本人看罷,竟然對該電影有大失所望的感覺。Juno的率真和自然當然得到不少人認同,她的家人還有朋友都令人心生羨慕,幸不得身邊都擁有這樣義無反顧地支持自己的家人和朋友。看到Juno跌跌碰碰,最後差點因遇人不淑而出事,你認為這是因為幸運還是她的無知呢﹖

其中一幕最令我深刻的是後母勸戒她不要打擾人家,不能因為「隨心所欲」而隨便做自己想做的事情,因為有些事佾並不是我們表面看到這麼簡單。我不知道16歲的Juno是否聽明白了這段道理,不過由第一幕雙方見面開始,導演已千方百計的表示Vanessa其實早將事情看在眼裏,不過Juno依然故我,對別人感受視若無睹。到後來驚覺原來表面上看上好如此美好的家庭都是自己一廂情願,美夢被粉碎後,Juno把車驅到一旁,身心力歇,眼淚流滿面的她反省了甚麼呢﹖

「兩個人究竟如何白頭到老﹖」Juno氣急敗壞的回到家裏問父親。她告訴父親她對人性徹底失望,因為她想不通原來擁有高尚職業及收入,也不能確保你能夠跟愛人可以相濡而沬,不能保證家庭和關係都是一生一世。那麼,甚麼人才值得一生廝守,相愛到白頭呢﹖她的父親就說了全世界最老土,有說等於沒有說過的意見﹕「找到一個無論你甚麼樣子都喜歡你的人。」於是Juno恍然大悟,剛從街上回來,又馬上跑去找那個穿奇離短褲的男孩子。 如果我是那個爸爸,見到女兒如此,不知應該悲從中來,還是欲哭無淚好了。

這是全片中我最不能認同的地方。連肚都給搞大了,這是一個真實的生命,Juno不但沒有反思過為甚麼事情變成這個地步,還像大無畏的去墮胎,自己安排領養事情,她以為這就是「為自己生命負責」嗎﹖為甚麼Juno不能想想為甚麼會大肚﹖還不是因為好奇,隨隨便便就跟一個連自己都不知道是否真正喜歡的人發生性行為。為甚麼她會「驚覺成年人關係如此複雜﹖」,還不是因為她明知別人有家室還燈蛾撲火,自投羅網﹖我認為這些行為都不是「因為她率真」而可以就此平息。後母因為她對口水敏感而放棄自己所愛,父親因為自己女兒無知失言而替她打圓場,男孩子雖然on直,但整個故事中似乎只有他最真實,最清楚自己需要甚麼,然後面對和選擇。

Juno不但不知道自己的率性行為影響了她身邊的人之餘,最後還要像大家姐一樣,跟Vanessa說﹕「If you are still in, I am still in」。彷彿知道自己沒有能力照顧孩子,所以把他送給別人,就是對孩子最好的決定。其實是她自大兼白痴。因為她根本沒有為自己生命負責任,所以她都不會為那個小生命負責任——送給別人,就是最好的方法,只要你愛他。為甚麼她不昆給予小生命愛的人呢﹖

由懷孕開始至結尾,Juno還是一個不成熟、不負責任、不經思考的年青人。由一開始,她不知道自己做過甚麼,到了最後,她仍搞不懂自己錯過了甚麼,得到了和失去了甚麼﹖其實,她就像那個穿Kurt Cobain T-shirt的廣告音樂人一樣,不面對真實的自己,活在自己的fantasy裏頭,到後來「發覺」現實生活不如想像中,就怪罪事情身上、對方身上。

現實生活當然永遠不及fantasy那麼可親和快樂,不過正因為痛苦,我們才更懂得珍惜快樂。世上沒有免費午餐,也沒有速成班,Juno今次幸運地避過一劫,假如她的個性依然故我的話,我想,下一鋪來得更甘更杰。

電影院裏頭很多少女都看得津津有味,彷彿親身經歷一樣。是否大家都想像Juno一樣,永遠長不大,活在自己的夢裏﹖

Posted by martharita on 17.2008   2 comments
Category :無所事事

happy day

I went to MK this morning for taichi class. The class started at 8:30am and I have tried my best to arrive at 9am. After the exercise, some stayed at office and some gotta returned to NP, I am the one who goes to NP afterwards as I am required not to attend the seminar to be held at MK office in the evening. The reason of this is so obviously, however, some who are new to this wonderland still need some time to figure out by themselves, good luck!

After the class, I had a relaxing and wonderful full breakfast. I could have time for reading newspaper!!!OMG! What else could I ask for more with a refreshing start of the day like this!? I had a good time with d too~
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When we left the office, other colleague was having meeting and he was supposed to retrun to office after the meeting. When we arrived at the lobby of NP building at 11:XXam, I have got a phone call from this colleague who told us that he's in the office already, for quite some time indeed! Luckily we were almost there and therefore, it doesn't bother us that much. Good grief~

It was 11:XX am when we were at the office. At 12:45, time for lunch again!!!!! Then we went to a Korean restaurant, a recommendation of E, the environment is nice and food not bad.
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I was happy and therefore wanted to take some pictures with them, to leave such a happy memory in my mind.
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Posted by martharita on 14.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

Annoying

Annoying.

The most difficult thing about working with people is NOT to put your values/beliefs onto others.

You think it is good might not necessary true for me. You like something doesn't mean I have to like the same thing as well.

People keep doing this only show their ignorance of respect.

Please, go annoying yourself, i dont want to be bothered.

Thank you.

我覺得好老土。

我係鍾意mental health,我先去進修,知道多d關於呢方面既資料。我唔係心理學家,唔好傾緊公事時突然問我點解你個fd係人群當中點解咁緊張,又或者點解佢會怕人,又或者點解佢唔講野。

我唔係輔導員,唔好同我講「你自己都讀counselling,你應該都知啦!」唔好意思,我唔係讀counselling,係behavioral health。就算我讀counselling,都唔代表我一定要了解你,要對你用同理心,或者期望我會知你諗乜。仲有,雖然我唔係讀counselling,唔係CP,但唔該你唔好對我同對D CP態度完全兩樣野。對住D CP就笑曬扮好人,對我就UP埋D唔3唔4既野。你唔好一邊當我係counselor同我講野,轉頭又當我係普通員工咁要求我。大家都係人,我都識聽廣東話,仲有眼神、語氣同態度係univeral的,呢d叫身體語言,係人出黎做野做都知呢d係啦!

最後,我讀書係我自己既事,由day 1開始我都係低調行事,我冇諗過要上位定係證明d乜野!唔該唔好「以我為榜樣」。大家都唔係小學生,唔好我做乜又跟住做乜,唔好做埋d低b野,搏表現,attention seeking同宣示主權,仲有講野大聲。

好難頂。
Posted by martharita on 13.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

老鼠迴轉壽司網上熱播

哇!超驚呀!!!405
朗豪坊d食店成日出事,大家真係要小心d 40

【09:23】2008年03月12日 【on.cc專訊】 元氣壽司位於旺角朗豪坊的分店,上周三被食客發現有老鼠在迴轉帶上出沒,旁邊還有多碟魚生壽司正在迴轉帶上奉客,令人毛骨悚然;有食客拍下照片並於近日上載至互聯網,隨即引起網民議論紛紛。

元氣壽司發言人接受查詢時證實,事件發生於上周三,當日朗豪坊分店向其所屬集團匯報有關情況後,公司已即時派專人作出了解及跟進,隨後即時將該店所有食品棄掉及安排全面而徹底的清洗,並於翌日暫停營業,與有關管理公司作詳細的調查及跟進,並密切監察整體生情況。發言人稱,該店以往並沒有發生類似事件。

 

Posted by martharita on 12.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

Dying professor, Dr. Randy Pausch - from Oprah

This video is about a man, Dr. Randy Pausch is going to die because of cancer. He tried his best to lecture people on the essence of life. He has 3 things to teach his kids:

- Have Fun
- Never Give Up
- Always look for the goods in people

Oprah has invited him to give his lecture on her show, I think his message are delivered clear and thorough in this show, let's take a look:


What would you do/think/feel/want to do when you know these are the last days of your life? I really do not know. I might scare, panic, whine, angry, sad...lots of feelings coming up from the bottom of my heart and i guess I could always be overflowed with these kinds of feelings...Dr Randy Pausch and his wife have gone through a lot of things to today, I supposed. It is really courageous and not easy.

We have a lot of chances to face crisis in our lifetime, what did we do when we are face to face of these changes? In the organization I am working for, they advise people empowering themselves, "Yes! I can!". It seems like a magical word and I suppose a lot of people benefit from it. However, i don't think it is a remedy for everything. It is only an attitude. There are lots more things to do apart from the positive attitude.

There was a time I had a bad time with my job, myself. I have no satisifaction from anything. I whined and complaint, OFTEN. I have gave my best, why couldn't I get the trophy I want? Is life really mean to me?It seems that not fair to me...other people who seems average get more than me! What's wrong with my life? I was unhappy and lost. Then I come across a chance with watching this video. I saw a man who works really hard on telling people that not to give up easily. I can feel his passion, his energy. The force behind him for doing all these gracious and wonderful things must be love, I supposed. But, it is not me, He looks strong and OK, sure he has no problem to do what he wanted to do! I don't know him, he is a professor, he is well educated and he has his own life! What does he do that deals with me? Apart from his great big heart, I feel nothing from him.

Nowadays, I have gone through another crisis of my life. ( i think should be through la...) I have made a lot decisions, I have made a lot of choices. I have faced myself, I have faced life. While I watch the same man giving his best to lecture people, I feel his heart. He is a man afterall, he has weakness, pain and sufferings, yet he choose giving lecture as his way of facing the last days of his life. He might want to live as an example for his children on what is never giving up, have fun and look the goods in people. Be gratitude, tell the truth...This is what he believes in and his life. At last, he has got the warm and big applaud from the audience. It seems like responding to his last few lines in the video that "When you live your life in a right way, the karma will take care of itself" If you do good to people or the good things, the good things will come to you the other way round.

He choose to live his life in grace and honour. How about me? How do I honour myself, my life? Buying new clothes? Put on perfect make-up, having a respectable job or choosing a right boyfriend? This is what the advertisement told us to do so. But I don't think it is right.

Take a look of the video again and get more clues from him.

His website: http://download.srv.cs.cmu.edu/~pausch/
Posted by martharita on 12.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

marriage numbers

One of the courses I have taken cover a few issues about marriage, for those who are married or not, I bet you also interested in this subject, let me share with you here.

Making your marriage work - the Be Attitudes:

  • Be honest
  • Be loving
  • Be patient
  • Be forgiving
  • Be generous
  • Be loyal
  • Be desiring
  • Be fun to live with
  • Be one
  • Be caring

Caring and responsibility

(哇!難過愛自己......403)

Common Causes of martial trouble:

  • Selfishness
  • Financial problems/meanness
  • Sickness (e.g. depression)
  • Poor communication
  • Unrealistic expectations
  • Drug or alcohol excess
  • Jealousy, esp in men
  • Driving amibtion
  • Immaturity
    (你中幾多個﹖391)

Positive guidelines for success

  • Know yourself
  • Share interests and goals
  • Continue courtship after marriage
  • Make love, not war
  • Cherish your mate
  • Prepare yourself for parenthood
  • Seek proper help when necessary
  • Do unto your mate as you would have your mate do unto you
  • Put aside quiet times each week to share

Some figures you might want to know:
In 2005, 43,000 couples got married, while 14,873 others got divorced. To put it more simply, for 10 new marriages, 4 divorces happened.

Single-parent families:
1996: 41,200
2006: 76,900

1 out of 13 children lives in such a household:
number of single parent working > 60hrs/wk
1996: 4,200
2006: 7,700

Re-marriages
1991: 4,892
2002: 8,354

What's the hell wrong with us? For those who are not married yet, don't worry! It could be a blessing after knowing these figures. Don't you think so?

Posted by martharita on 12.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

meeting day

自日月之後,已經好少機會開會開成日了。

今早0900返來,由0930開始開會至1715 !!好彩,大家都仲有人性,到左lunchtime一定要食飯!唔食飯!點做野呀!於是乎同阿design呀、programme一齊出去食蘭州拉麵。原來阿design都幾饞嘴,呢間野都係佢介紹。

今日難得同阿programme食飯,已經好耐冇咁既機會喇,大家hehehaha笑下呢個笑下果個,今日食得幾開心。係呢度我既工作大部分都係我同佢交收,做野方面佢都好幫手,而且channel又配合到,其實咁既拍擋真係唔多架,學D話齋,同事唔跣你已經係bonus。所以,做project遇到佢呢個幫手,心裏面都好感激!佢份人雖然成日口衰衰,其實我同佢都係同事,不過工作上佢唔跣我,仲有時好幫我,已經覺得好足夠同開心。


尋晚去左打排球。已經好耐冇打,所以打完返黎,對手腫曬,仲爆曬微絲血管,效果好似畀人虐打一樣。摸落去仲好鬼痛。因為太耐冇打,肌肉實在酸疼!大痺兩則,手痺都好攰,上落樓梯真係好似阿婆咁,要慢慢黎,一步步扶住黎行。哈哈,不過呢d情況都唔係第一次喇,通常做完劇烈運動之後就有呢個情況出現。不過尋日打得好開心,水準都好彩仲keep到,而且一打波時人就放鬆了不少,全程係度笑係度叫!有個朋友仔一樣,都係好喜歡大叫的,當我隊落後既時候,我地就會大叫打氣,贏既時候又會高叫歡呼,可能在場有人會覺得我地太大聲,不過我地既氣氛真係感染到其他人,甚有影響力!因為明顯對方畀我地「氣勢」嚇倒,節節落後!哈哈,但我地都打得好開心。個個都笑住走。 我地梗係冇人地打得咁勁!都係玩下姐~

Posted by martharita on 11.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

洋食居酒屋 + gym裸女事件簿

如前文講過,因為和民,唔少餐廳都開始以「和民」既style為指標,如菜色既選擇、格調呀咁都似得十足十。我唔係和民既fans,不過佢地總算係第一家以咁既型式係香港經營既餐廳,為香港既日本餐廳帶黎唔小新鮮感。

呢間洋食居酒屋都唔例外,睇佢出面既格局就覺得熟口熟面,入到去其實唔止日本野食既,仲有意粉呀、扒類等。不過佢既包裝都係日式洋菜咁。即係好似Italien tomato一樣,雖然個名寫到明「意大利」,但你覺得自己食緊日本野多,定意大利野多﹖

我地點左唔少食物,食物味道、質素及店員既水準都非常之一般,但價錢又一d都唔平啵!

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其實碟碟睇落都好似差唔多。味道分別唔多大。雖然唔係難食,但特色欠奉。

這個weekend沒有安排特別的節目,因為連續地病,感覺實在不好,暗忖身體真的如此差麼﹖於是終於等到周末了,回家後馬上看中醫,然後吃過午餐便出發做gym了。

在更衣室內,看到很多女士對衣解帶似乎都不太介意,不少更裸著上身,神態自若地走來走去。我到gym的時間多是晚上差不多是gym房下班的時候,因此人流不多。不過在周末的黃金時間,更衣室人山人海,彷彿四處都是裸女在走動,感覺就有點怪怪了。hey!我不是身處古希臘或土耳奇呀!說真的,我真的不想看到那麼多赤裸裸的軀體啊!究竟她們是真的不介意,還是耀呢﹖我想,假如我們身處公共泳池,同樣是女更衣室,情況又是否一樣呢﹖

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到gym,必定親臨sauna房啦!每次走進sauna房,發現總有一個裸女係左近。她們徐徐地把披在身上的大毛巾解下來,然後似曬太陽般把毛巾平放在濕漉漉的磚或者熱騰騰的木條上,不同的是她們沒有穿比堅尼,一件都冇!然後就看到很多大家都有的東西,其實,我戒吃冷食多年,我真的不是太想吃「冰淇淋」!......唉~~女孩子們還是穿上比堅呢較好看!那怕布塊只有手掌般大,總比給你一覽無遺的感覺要好得多。因為,我真的沒多大興趣啊!

不少香港女孩子原來真的很活躍和健康,她們一般都是躺在毛巾上,不過有些為了把握每一分熱力,她們靜靜地感受著房間的高溫時,有些會接二連三進行不少高難度動作如空中踏單車、拱橋、拉筋......配合徐緩有致的呼吸聲,那些yoga式長嘆「噓噓」聲在煙霧迷漫的sauna房此起彼落。有些會敷面膜,左右手在身上不斷流動,為了要將潤膚液的功用發揮到全身,可能潤膚液真的太潤滑了,時不時就聽到那些「吱吱」聲,這些都是手掌與皮膚摩擦時發出的聲音......

記得早幾年大家到sauna房時還有點緬甸,有人會穿泳衣,有人會披大毛巾,如今不少女孩子都不介意「打大赤辣」的在更衣室、sauna房走來走去,我不明白。或者大家認為這是liberation的一種statement吧﹕我喜愛自己身體,所以不介意給你看。

是嗎﹖通常都是年紀較成熟的女士,和那些超級自信的女性都較多這些情況出現。各位解放的女性,享受自己空間的時候,請也照顧她人感受吧!
Posted by martharita on 10.2008   1 comments
Category :無所事事

感受

昨天請了sick leave,有些工作不得不於今天完成。差不多八時多才離開辦公室。回家路上,看了些書關於boundary的。知道自己對boundary這東西一直沒有很清晰的概念,甚麼是應該做,甚麼是不應該做的,都是大約憑自己喜好去決定。記起有天,中四的英文老師發回英作我,問﹕「你是如何學英語的﹖」我不明白她說甚麼,她說覺得我的gramma就像憑喜好決定,完全沒有章法......哈哈,想不到給她說破了。

不但止英語沒有章法,對工作和生活都沒有章法的我,碰了不少釘子;曾經以為給我帶來無垠自由的東西,原來也是野孩子的成因。

「保守你的心」,聖經說的。把自己的心好好保守,張開雙眼感受,想清楚,慢慢走。

偶然找到這篇文章,挺有意思,給大家分享﹕

某地方有一座小島上住著
各種「感覺」
有一天這個小島不知道為甚麼突然要陸沉了

各種「感覺」紛紛搭著自己的小船
爭先恐後要離開這快要陸沉的小島逃命

而有一種叫「愛」的感覺卻不急著走
直到小島沉下去的最後一刻它才依依不捨地離開
但途中它所乘的船卻莫名其妙的破了
它只好抱著沉船的碎木片在海中隨浪浮沉
並開始尋找其他的「感覺」想向它們求救

首先它遇到「虛榮」
但「虛榮」卻覺得泡在海水裏的「愛」上船後
會弄髒它的船
於是便不理會它反而加速離去

「愛」之後又遇到「富貴」
但是「富貴」的船上裝滿了金銀珠寶根本沒位置
讓它上船

於是「愛」繼續漂泊......

這次它看到「快樂」
「愛」向著「快樂」求救
但「快樂」就是名副其實的快樂
正不知道為了甚麼事情高興著
根本沒留意到「愛」的存在
「愛」唯有繼續漂流再接再尋找......

這次「愛」碰到了「孤單」
但「孤單」早已習慣自己一個人
所以還是一樣沒讓「愛」上船

正當「愛」絕望放棄時
突然有一個【人】伸手把它拉上自己的船
那【人】也一樣跟著其他「感覺」找尋另一個可棲身的小島

最後它們找到了一個島語花香的小島後
那個【人】把「愛」放下安頓
又坐上他的船離開這個新發現的小島了
「愛」這時才發現一直沒機會問那個【人】的名字

直到不久後它遇到另一個【人】叫「智慧」
「智慧」告訴「愛」救它那個【人】
其實叫————「時間」

而「時間」之所以會救「愛」
是因為只有「時間」才能肯定感受到「愛」的在存

所以朋友們
今天我們就來一起
珍惜「時間」

感受「愛」吧


節錄自「紅絲帶」綜合治療中心刊物

Posted by martharita on 07.2008   0 comments
Category :無所事事

I am sick

今早一起床就感到人有點熱,後來鼻哥還有鼻水,人感到乏力,以為自己還不習慣早起床的生活。返到公司便見到咖哩一早坐陣了,安頓好自己以後便開始工作。不過直到下午,情況都沒有好轉,反而愈變愈差。後來破天荒點了外賣,只因為想要熱檸樂加彊。後來喝了,情況真的好了點,不過之後又打回原形了,鼻水還是照流,而且打噴嚏和咳。

今天因為要趕起某工作,終於差不多九時多才離開辦公室。

咖哩問我﹕「除了證明你是可以之外,其實也是否想證明給自己看呢﹖」

我不知道。證明給自己看﹖從來沒有想過呢!只知道上天給予我機會,然後就好好珍惜,盡量做得多少便多少吧。證明﹖給誰看啊﹖當然,人家看到了,心裏面也會踏實一些,感到公平一些。

Posted by martharita on 05.2008   0 comments
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我係咪病左﹖

今早醒來後覺得喉嚨有點痛,不久,便有啖了。鼻也開始呈半塞狀態,人感到疲倦,加上前兩天打羽毛球,手腳都酸痛起來!唉~所以今天精神不在最佳狀態,想沖個熱水涼,或者喝杯熱檸樂煲彊會有點效用呢!

周末,與G到YSL 的counter試妝,妝容令人滿意!意想不到的是給我們化妝的竟然是來自法國的MUA! wow~~他給我雙眼塗上墨帶點shimmering的顏色,效果有點像smokey eyes,但是一點都不誇張,上班都可以。反而令自己「重新」認識自己眼睛﹕「哇!原來我對眼係度呀!」不過回到家自己再試,效果就似平時一樣,一點都不起眼,只是給人「化了妝」的感覺。

G也試了平時她少試的顏色,效果同樣出色!還有那雙塗上了electric blue的眼睫毛,在日光下像扇子一樣上下晃動,看得我目不轉睛......哇!呢d咪就係化妝咯!
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之後到了別府晚餐。香港的日本餐廳經和民「洗禮」,已經不只供應幾道咖哩飯或拉麵而已,而是以居酒屋的形式,除了幾道基本主菜,還有各種小吃、熱盤、餐飲以供選擇,當然還有圖文並茂的餐牌,最重要還是所有食物都是小盤小碟的,就像要釣你胃口一樣。不過對於女士們來說,小盤小碟就剛好合我們的胃口。

可是今次別府的份量卻出奇地小啊!有點被搵笨的感覺。一碟牛柳粒有半碟是芽菜,另外半碟則只有五、六舊牛肉!還有那個蝦膏炒飯,$55則只有半碟茶餐廳套餐份量!離譜!還好,最後都有一瓶清酒作點綴,其實只有半條手臂的高度,都得$88!回想起來,這一餐的確很貴啊!

不過挺愉快啊~~喝了點酒的我,回家時真的有點睏,為了散酒氣,逛了逛久違的IKEA。
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離曬譜的別府食物!幾廿蚊全部細細碟,真係去和民食好過!


第二天到mk開會,終於有機會與我久違了的三文魚早餐重逢~~~

不知怎的,這幾天都與「齋」有緣,連續吃了幾天齋菜。前兩天打完波,就和朋友們去了太子那邊吃齋。第二天開完會後,和同事重臨那間勁送水果的齋館,點了很多食物,當然包括齋燒肉,彊炒菜心粒飯等等,回家吃晚餐,媽又準備了全齋宴,原來是招呼親朋戚友。不要以為這樣吃齋對身體好,其實齋是用了很多很多油煮食,不喫謹處理的話,只是變相吃了很多油下肚,真正的營養可能不多。而且現代人齋口唔齋心,吃齋都是為清心與清身,不過現代「齋」變得和泰國菜呀、日本菜分別不大吧﹖只是香港人出外用膳時其中一款選擇而已。
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簡單的奶茶和三文治給我展開清新一個清新的早上!
Posted by martharita on 04.2008   0 comments
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一個徹底的白羊人。做事憑一股衝勁,接著後勁不繼,即朋友說的3分鐘熱度。怎麼說好呢﹖


即使只有3分鐘熱度,也學習如何好好發揮,成為最漂亮的永恆。

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